say what you say

After a while you realize people can say what they say and not mean a thing so the best thing is to judge by what they do and don't do. words spoken hastily or in a frenzy or when afraid or angry or at non-calm state etc.....or the worst when joking.......and it's taken seriously........that's really the most annoying one of them all.

So judge by what they do and don't do, and speech spoken in a calm non agitated state........this London museum pic reminds me of the new stuff i learnt in the Natural History Museum (though this is pic of National History Museum). I actually learnt a bit of forensic science in Natural History Museum!

I've gotten fed so much these few days because of the famous popular CNY in my country......which involves chinese and koreans......mostly chinese. i'm beginning to drop a lot of unnecessary things in my life just to take up the things that are more "important". i think it works that way.

so the only things i hope won't happen now is that i'm not gained too much weight. haha. i wonder what non chinese people do these few days........shop? exercise? walk around? then you realize that as years go by lesser and lesser people come or turn up for extended family gatherings because they start forming their own nuclear (immediate) family or live elsewhere (migrated). i guess i am still "constant" and not much change in that sense and i am in absolutely no hurry to make any major decisions in my lfie so quickly. whyever for anyway?........=) life adapts to me while i adapt to what it throws at me.....haw haw haw!