If anything can have better effect than monetary rewards, its PRAISE from your colleagues or superiors, even subordinates. Finallly, i hear the words "you're hardworking what" from the supervisors at lunch summore today.....boosts the self esteem eh. despite knowing the reason why they're saying that :
(which is to retain me....ahem....no...its to lessen the workload with the group now which gets truly chaotic, uncoordinated, disorganised, chaotic.....in the office....though not forgetting funny at times).
ahh well being young, i beg to differ to the notion "a rolling stone gathers no moss". even my senior colleague (Mr Frankie...a jovial retiree, 57) told us "This statement is not true! In fact, more jobs mean more experiences of different industries and cultures and people". That totally assured me. hahahaha. i mean, seriously.....even if for the first 3 years of a graduate's working life is about job-hopping, i as a HR hirer wouldn't mind at all. Because i would understand their mentality, which was 1) to adjust to the working world 2) to find out where they truly fit in (industry-wise). i am happy to say i'm really happy in my present job but i need the monetary thing for now.....i THINK.
i wouldn't really advice applying this mentality to dating of course.....but then again....ok maybe observing from a distance before Jumping into an exclusive relationship might be safer. but if God says or speaks clearly to both parties that's a different thing.
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