a lot of debates come from opposites, or are they from opposites?
for instance
One big example from a friend who asked me this in jc. this question continues to plague me actually haha. because it is a deep question - the debate of choice or no choice - which is better for you personally? hm, both work for me, but i slightly prefer to have choice, yet i am afraid to make the wrong choice.
i also learnt actually the slower way, that sometimes when an advice or comment is made, it may not be directed at me and may be to everyone, or a group of people, or the person's own strong beliefs or some past experience of the person speaking, or a projection of their fears, or simply, to teach / guide everyone. so, you cannot take things to heart at times or too personal.
just the same with the word "humble". yes it may represent being non-boastful etc, but may not always mean not boasting or pretending to be lousy at something. it could actually mean quick to apologize, or quick to accept others (even at lover level), or quick to change. its about again, matters of ...the heart (not romance but used here, intentions and purpose)
Wednesday, August 27, 2014
Tuesday, August 19, 2014
how to tell if you're a hopeless romantic who met someone who reminds you of...*Mr.
1) you talk to yourself sometimes (but actually you're imagining talking to your other...)
2) you watched 50 first dates or other romantic shows more than 3 times, and probably will watch more soon
3) bad things throughout the week that happen seem less bad
4) you smile a strange half-smile to yourself at times and have to keep coming up with excuses about it / (however, this also occurs with mental people)
5) Work and life has slightly more purpose
But seriously, that was written tongue in cheek so i sometimes tell myself, well......good vibes are good vibes but should not supercede your more or most important priorities in life. though they really can sweep people off their feet (literally and figuratively) - still trying to decipher the difference between literal and figurative.
1) you talk to yourself sometimes (but actually you're imagining talking to your other...)
2) you watched 50 first dates or other romantic shows more than 3 times, and probably will watch more soon
3) bad things throughout the week that happen seem less bad
4) you smile a strange half-smile to yourself at times and have to keep coming up with excuses about it / (however, this also occurs with mental people)
5) Work and life has slightly more purpose
But seriously, that was written tongue in cheek so i sometimes tell myself, well......good vibes are good vibes but should not supercede your more or most important priorities in life. though they really can sweep people off their feet (literally and figuratively) - still trying to decipher the difference between literal and figurative.
Saturday, August 16, 2014
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