its not always what you see on the surface....i always seek the TRUTH of things. this pic taken at speakers corner in uk reminds me of how we should always ask or talk to people to find out what the truth is rather than assuming or guessing etc.....besides always good to hear both sides or all sides of a story and others' opinions.

the horrible-ly slow process

i'm just going to put this out there......i don't care what people think and or say or both haha.

Please let be because of just ONE reason / thing........
That.......

The ’perfect‘ guy is praying for me out there....haha i know this sounds really incredible and nearly impossible like what are the chances of this person out there doing that, right? praying.......but then a lot of us do as well too......in the secret.

haw haw haw haw haw........ ;p :p :) ;) This picture taken in one of the churches i stayed in in London reminds me of what some of these missionaries learnt and taught us.......most or almost all of them respected the rule of no dating for one year so that they can be focussed on God and His calling and work rather than just date around or be on hunting mode.

just a post

I'm just a little un-tired as i slept a lot the night before....so here i am in the quiet still of the night.....such luxury of a slight chill for us here.....while the southern and northern hemisphere of the world is snowing right now!

When will i ever get to see real-life falling snow?? I'm either too early or too late when i visit temperate countries!! I miss my new friends from temperate places.......lol.

1) Gotta say i'm seriously thankful though i am still surprised that i actually have a job now....and people are actually quite encouraging about it.....stuff like "you should stay at least 2 years". A job, whether you earn money or not.....has gotta be something you have a calling in, see purpose or have passion in.
we also tend to overlook thankfulness for ...

2) good health......i had a free medical checkup and i seem ok. do not take good health for granted!!!

3) Interests ........like a musical talent, interest in reading, studying languages, dancing, photography, walking, running, sports, smiling, laughing, listening to others whine/laugh/brag/cry, observing people of different personalities, shopping, window shopping, suntanning, exploring new places, science experiments (lol), selling something......meeting new people, theatre, movies, work, food. What would life be without interests?

So yup here i am. Thankfully trying to verbalise or put in words what i hope NOT to take from God for granted....

he is no fool

Who takes a job he cannot lose

Or He who tries a job for some time which he loses

At least he hath gained experience

At some point

in life.....you realize that

just remembering or 

thinking of some people 

is enough to make you cry (moved to tears)

of these, the greatest is love

The end does not justify the means. The means and ways and methods we reach out to others, including our own kind....is really soul-catching.

For instance love. Which person is not won over with love?

On personal experience (firsthand).....I was a bit afraid of some of my teammates I had to work with at first, but i didn't even know them yet as persons. Because of some bad past experience I had with a certain type of people years ago....and these were people with same beliefs as me, by the way, a few years ago....so by stereotyping, I was quite afraid to well, work, with them.

But in the end, like at the end of the trip and getting to talk to them and work with them, well I was won over and in fact, impressed by their respect shown and their ways of working. The past experience I had with people of "that same kind" was totally completely re-written in a positive way this time because I had a good personal experience firsthand with them again. And this time it was a memorable and positive one.

1 Cor 13:13
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Dear Girls,
If you're ever tempted to lose your decency too fast and let a guy touch you or get physically close too quickly....before knowing each other properly....
Just think....Somewhere right now...
There IS someone special and worth it is praying for you and waiting for you out there. (because you're worth it and so is he). And please...anything worth it is worth waiting for. So patience is not a problem for him.
He values marriage and knows it's importance.
He may be writing letters to you and preparing to meet you, that special girl/woman of his life someday. He trusts God to bring both of you together.

for the lack of cheem words

Suddenly being back for like more than a week, I have completely lost my speed of talking and regained the singlish accent.

i do not miss the cold in england but it was really fun scrambling always for the most reachable gloves, scarf, leg warmers, winter cap and ear muffs whenever i stepped out of a buliding or a cafe or a bus where there were heaters. either that or if there was no time, to stuff my hands into my pockets. this keeps us all very busy. keeping warm.

So......basically i learnt so many things about different countries.