another kinda ouch whenever there are groups of people

Have you ever had an "ouch" before in life..who hasn't?
and i don't mean that kinda physical pains etc................
i'm talking about the u know, the emotional ones..........
The most ironic part is this
When everyone is talking about this pain that they feel.....
on one hand you want to feel it with them
but on the other hand you know its another kinda pain
not the pain that they are all fussing about....................
and yet the pain they are fussing about makes your pain worse
but for again, a different reason

where you go "that really hurt" but every one thinks its the
pain that they feel but its another kinda pain you feel....but
you cant mention it to people because.
because it's a sensitive issue. it may expose who you are deep down.
who you are as a person......what you really think and feel.....

But what you see is the truth to you......everything is real
but it's told from your eyes. so where does the truth come in?

Where is the standard, the absolute truth of what is going on
in people groups as we learn in Physics, the topic of Temperature,
where there is an Absolute zero degrees?