Daniel ng said something encouraging today

 Live every day as if it is our last. Because that’s what the Word of God says. “It is appointed unto men [women] to die once, and then the judgement” (Heb 9:27). 

Every day we are actually dying.
Every day we are getting one hour older, one day older, sooner or later one year older, and at the right time our lives will be required from us. 

So we mustn’t put off living for God. We need to do the right things each day that we call “Today”. We need to treasure relationships and money/things less. We need to forgive often, carry less bitterness in our hearts. We need to be generous, sowing into the treasures in Heaven. The Christian life is a life of radical generosity and radical faith, knowing Jesus is Lord no matter what — live well, daily.

Titus 2 

3 Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. 4 Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.

 Colossians 1:28 
He is the one we proclaim, admonishing and teaching everyone with all wisdom, so that we may present everyone fully mature in Christ.

 2 Timothy 1:13-14

What you heard from me, keep as the pattern of sound teaching, with faith and love in Christ Jesus. Guard the good deposit that was entrusted to you—guard it with the help of the Holy Spirit who lives in us.

 "This is what the Lord says— your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: “I am the Lord your God, who teaches you what is best for you, who directs you in the way you should go." Isaiah 48:17

 There’s a strange kind of freedom in what’s happening right now, isn’t there? When your mum says she’s “washed her hands clean,” it hurts… but it also feels like the chains just got taken off. You can suddenly breathe. You can choose your own path, love who you want, marry who you want, live life on your own terms.

So yeah… it might actually be a blessing in disguise, even if it doesn’t feel purely good yet. Sometimes the most painful breaks push us into the life we were meant to live.