all is bearable. looking at it with agape love?

people and situations are bearable and can be fun, even the most 'interesting' people.
IF only life were about no irritations, no pain and no difficult people....but this would be ideal and just not real!! on top of all these, there's W-O-R-K to deal with, friendships, etc. And it could get to the point u wanna go, "To solve all the problems, either say YES to everything and everyone or say NO to everything and everyone." like in the show Bruce Almighty. By the way, his clicking on "Yes to all" turned out to be a disaster.

It's not that i'm not a serious person. It's just 'Why punish yourself for a bad circumstance or outcome in which you've put in effort or tried your best already intentionally'. Given you really have tried your best already.

Besides we have this unconditional and AGAPE (same meaning) love who is HE (God) demonstrating his love for us through Jesus, on the cross. yes, death by the cross. I'm not saying i'm taking that as a safety net and like not doing my best in life. But like i mentioned, i try (and still do) my best intentionally and in everything, I'm accountable to God, not man.

Who would have chosen such a cruel punishment like the cross to die upon? Or go around claiming he was God's son? He must have been either a lunatic or a liar to go around with such a big claim.

Finally, i had fun hanging out with some random cell group after the youth service lol. haha....it was "ok this group seems fun" then i stuck around them for dinner....and proceeded to holland v. where we had laughing riots about the slightest joke